From FOMO to JOMO: Why Gen Z Is Done With Music Festivals

New York: Remember when music festivals were the ultimate summer flex? Backstage passes, flower crowns, LED bracelets, and endless Instagram stories—it was a whole identity. But in 2025, something’s changed. And if you’ve been watching your feed, you’ve probably noticed it too: fewer festival selfies, more “I stayed home and loved it” posts.

Gen Z isn’t rage-quitting the music scene—they’re quietly opting out. No dramatic exits, no viral takedowns—just a silent but collective “no thanks.” And the data backs it up. Festival cancellations are spiking, attendance is thinning, and big-name events are scaling down or shutting off entirely. So what’s going on? And more importantly—what’s replacing the festival high?

The Burnout Is Real: It’s Not Just About the Money

Yes, festivals are ridiculously expensive. Tickets run $300+, food is overpriced, merch is a cash trap, and travel costs are through the roof. But money is just the surface-level issue. For Gen Z, it’s the emotional cost that’s too high.

They’re tired of overhyping an experience that often ends in heat exhaustion, crowded porta-potties, and social media anxiety. Even when they do go, they often report feeling more stressed than soothed. The whole thing has become… performative.

The TikTok Effect: We’ve Already Seen the Show

In the age of real-time content, festival FOMO fades fast. Why buy a wristband when the best performances are clipped, filtered, and uploaded instantly? Gen Z doesn’t need to be in the pit to feel the vibe—they just need WiFi.

Plus, the influencer era has warped what festivals used to be. They’re no longer spontaneous gatherings of music lovers—they’re content farms with ring lights, brand booths, and “outfit changes for the grid.” It’s exhausting to keep up. And Gen Z would rather just not.

Mental Health > Mega Crowds

The pandemic taught a generation how to embrace solitude. For many, the return to loud, overstimulating crowds hasn’t been easy. Social anxiety is rising, and festivals—with their chaotic energy—aren’t the safe spaces they used to be.

Gen Z is choosing quiet over chaos. Backyard vinyl nights, house parties with curated playlists, even “silent discos” at wellness retreats. The vibe has shifted from “go big” to “go gently.”

From FOMO to JOMO: The Joy of Missing Out

Welcome to the JOMO era—the joy of missing out. Gen Z doesn’t feel bad about skipping out on the “must-go” events anymore. In fact, they’re proud of it.

Instead of chasing crowd validation, they’re building micro-communities around sound baths, indie gigs in bookstores, rooftop acoustic sessions, or even virtual concerts that are more personal, less chaotic. It’s not about the scene—it’s about the substance.

So What’s Replacing Music Festivals in 2025?

Gen Z isn’t anti-music. They’re just redefining what connection looks like. And these alternatives are thriving:

  • Sofar Sounds-style secret gigs
  • DIY backyard concerts
  • Lo-fi listening parties
  • Nature-based music retreats
  • Intimate artist showcases streamed via Discord or Twitch
  • There’s still rhythm, still soul—just less noise.

Music Isn’t Dying, the Hype Is

Gen Z isn’t killing music festivals—they’re evolving them. What we’re seeing isn’t a rebellion. It’s a recalibration. One where music is felt, not flaunted. Where community isn’t bought with a wristband, but built around shared energy.

So if you don’t see them at Coachella this year, don’t worry—they’re still vibing. Just somewhere quieter.